The Power of Compliments: How Black Women Boost Confidence Like No Other

Mia Nightshade

Updated Wednesday, April 17, 2024 at 12:00 AM CDT

When it comes to feeling good about oneself, there's something truly special about the way black women have the ability to make others feel. In a viral video shared on Reddit, a comedian shares his personal experiences of being hit on by black women and how it has left a lasting impact on his self-esteem.

In the video, the comedian expresses that every time he was approached by a black woman when he was single, it felt better than any drug he had ever tried. The way they spoke and the compliments they gave turned him into a child, filled with joy and confidence. One particular incident that stood out to him was in New York City, where a black woman stared at him intensely as they crossed paths. When he turned around to see if she continued to stare, she did, and she said, "You're just so handsome, that's why I'm looking at you like that." This simple compliment from a stranger sent him on a high for an entire month, fueling him with a newfound belief in himself and his dreams.

The video sparked a wave of comments from viewers who shared their own encounters with black women's compliments and the impact it had on them. One person recalled a black woman comparing them to "beautiful Jesus" while waiting in line at Best Buy, a compliment that they think about every day. Another person shared a touching story of being complimented on their accent while mentioning the word "croissant" at a shoe store, an encounter that still brings a smile to their face.

The comments section revealed countless stories of black women lifting others up with their kind words. From complimenting outfits to acknowledging the beauty of someone's eyes, each interaction left a deep and lasting impression on the recipients. It's evident that black women have a unique ability to make others feel seen, valued, and empowered.

The power of black women's compliments extends beyond personal appearances. As one commenter noted, black women have found the "best hack" for making guys feel good about themselves – by genuinely complimenting them. In a society where men often crave validation, black women have tapped into the secret of boosting confidence by offering sincere and meaningful compliments.

The impact of black women's compliments is not limited to race or gender. People of all backgrounds and ethnicities have shared their experiences of being uplifted by black women's words. Whether it's a white man receiving praise for his curly hair or a black woman feeling the same joy when complimented by one of her own, the positive effects of these interactions are universal.

The video and its accompanying comments serve as a reminder of the incredible power of words and the importance of uplifting others. In a world where negativity often dominates, the impact of a genuine compliment should never be underestimated. Black women have mastered the art of making others feel good about themselves, leaving a lasting imprint on their self-esteem and confidence.

So, the next time a black woman pays you a compliment, embrace it wholeheartedly and believe in the power of your dreams. Because, as this video and its comments have shown, when a black woman tells you that you're hot or talented or anything positive, it's more than just a compliment – it's a belief in your potential and a validation of your worth.

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Top Comments from Reddit

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AstronomerNo6423

I need to use my black girl magic apparently 👏🤣 If any white boys need to believe in themselves know that I gotchu

MailSalt4828

I did learn that you have to be specific. Once at a grocery store I asked a worker who was a black lady where the brown sugar was……she looked me up and down and walked away. I was genuinely looking for brown sugar.

GrapefruitTroop

A black woman once told her husband that I look like “beautiful Jesus” while in line at Best Buy and I think about it every day

anythingbutwildtype

Tall (6’7”) white guy here - this tracks 100%. I don’t get compliments often, but 9/10 times it’s from black women. Its like magic, I definitely have a smile and an extra bounce in my step the rest of the week.

GarretBarrett

When an older black lady calls you “sweetie”, dopest feeling on earth. Edit: honey, baby, all of em do the trick lol

CurvyCupcakes

As a black woman, this definitely made me smile. Andrew Santino is absolutely gorgeous and he’s so funny, I love his stand up. I’ve been crushing on that dude for years. EDIT: I literally thought this guy was Andrew Santino but I looked at OPs account and apparently it’s some other cute guy lol🤷🏽‍♀️

concretecat

On a trip to New York last year I stopped in at a random footlocker near Greenwich village to pick up some sneakers for my son. The staff picked up on my accent (anglophone but I live in Quebec) and was asking where we were from and I said Montreal. Then a staff member asked me what's the best things about Montreal and something I mentioned was all the French pastries and how easy it is to find a great croissant just about anywhere in the city. As soon as I said "croissant" a female staff member was like "Oooh, I like the way you say croissant, that's nice!" I had a chuckle and said thank you that's flattering and a year later I still think about her liking the way I say croissant. I just took it as a nice compliment and it stuck with me.

Evil_Mini_Cake

Black women have found the best hack for guys: just complement them and *mean it*. Guys are so hungry to feel good about themselves.

teureg

First time in America I went for a Burger King breakfast, a black lady gave me my food and said “here you go, sugar.” I melted a little.

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