The Struggle of Explaining Book Emotions: Socially Awkward Penguin Meme Resonates with Readers

Riley Sundew

Updated Wednesday, August 14, 2024 at 12:00 AM CDT

An image of the popular Socially Awkward Penguin meme has recently captured the hearts of book lovers and meme enthusiasts alike. The meme, featuring a penguin against a diagonally divided red and blue background, humorously depicts a common struggle among avid readers. The top part of the image, set against a red background, reads, "FINISHED A BOOK SERIES I ENJOYED AND ENDED UP CRYING BECAUSE OF THE ENDING." The bottom part, set against a blue background, adds, "TRYING TO EXPLAIN TO MY WIFE HOW A BOOK CAN HAVE SUCH AN EMOTIONAL IMPACT ON ME IS LIKE TALKING TO A BRICK WALL."

This meme has sparked a vibrant discussion among internet users, highlighting the emotional rollercoaster that books can bring. One user empathized, sharing, “It’s frustrating to have so little in common with my wife.” Another user commented on their daughter’s inability to visualize scenes while reading, noting, “She only sees either black or red, no images! She doesn’t really enjoy reading but is an avid consumer of movies, streaming shows, etc.”

The conversation continued with users expressing their own experiences. One shared a affecting story: “SO had a half dozen books they were planning on reading someday. I picked one out and started reading to them = achievement unlocked: live-action audio book.” Others discussed the varying emotional responses to books and other media, with one saying, “Does she not cry at stuff she watches? She may have been taught not to cry when young or some kind of trauma, but I am just making excuses for her here.”

The meme has also shed light on differing hobbies and interests among spouses. One commenter remarked, “I love working on guitars. My wife isn’t a musician so she doesn’t get the appeal, but she gets that I enjoy it.” Another user shared, “Meanwhile, I've been giving my husband cliff notes of Rama II. He's not a pleasure reader, and that's okay. We share other hobbies.”

The emotional connection to books is a recurring theme. One user shared a poignant quote from Rama II: “In my life I have found two things of priceless worth—learning and loving. Nothing else—not fame, not power, not achievement for its own sake—can possibly have the same lasting value. For when your life is over, if you can say ‘I have learned’ and ‘I have loved,’ you will also be able to say ‘I have been happy.’”

Many users found common ground in their love for books and the emotional journeys they embark on. One reader shared, “I understand your frustration. I love getting emotionally invested in a good book or movie.” Another shared a humorous anecdote, “I listen to audio books while driving my forklift at work. I can only imagine what people think seeing a heavily tattooed and pierced man wiping away tears while unloading trailers.”

This Socially Awkward Penguin meme has not only provided a moment of humor but has also opened up a broader conversation about the emotional impact of books and how readers connect with their stories. It underscores the idea that while not everyone may understand the depth of emotions a book can evoke, the experiences and connections formed through reading are unique and deeply personal.

For those who find solace and companionship in the pages of a book, this meme serves as a humorous yet poignant reminder that they are not alone in their literary passions.

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ChelVanin

“It’s frustrating to have so little in common with my wife.” This statement concerns me…

thrashingcows

Does your wife the ability for “theatre of the mind”? Can she see images in her minds eye while reading? We just found out recently that our daughter doesn’t have this ability…she only sees either black or red, no images! She doesn’t really enjoy reading but is an avid consumer of movies, streaming shows etc and we suspect this is why.

duktayp

SO had a half dozen books they were planning on reading someday. I picked one out and started reading to them = achievement unlocked: live-action audio book

WoofWoof21

I love to read but my eyes are s***. When I talk about specific parts of a book I call them scenes. Because they are! I saw what happened as I read it. And has a higher impact than any confined movie

toolzgalore2

Does she not cry at stuff she watches? She may have been taught not not cry when young or some kind if trauma, but I am just making excuses for her here

Littledirtybirdyfeet

Meanwhile, I've been giving my husband cliff notes of Rama II. He's not a pleasure reader, and that's okay. We share other hobbies. Here's a qoute from Rama II that I really liked "In my life I have found two things of priceless worth—learning and loving. Nothing else—not fame, not power, not achievement for its own sake—can possibly have the same lasting value. For when your life is over, if you can say ‘I have learned’ and ‘I have loved,’ you will also be able to say ‘I have been happy.’"

vkelcalvi

I have the same problem with videogames or TV shows, my wife doesn't understand why they are so important to me. I like reading but for me a (good) game or a (good) TV show have the same value as a (good) book. In a game you can even "be part" and "make" the story.

Soluxiis

My partner used to read for fun, but it's been a while since she's read anything that's not a scientific paper. Regardless, she actually likes hearing me ramble on about books (or pretends to, which is nice). It's always good when you can find a book that provokes an emotional response like this - Steven Erikson's Malazan Book of the Fallen broke me.

keys79

I understand your frustration. I love getting emotionally invested in a good book or movie. But having different hobbies and interests than your spouse is ok. I love working on guitars. My wife isn’t a musician so she doesn’t get the appeal, but she gets that I enjoy it. My wife likes scrapbooking. It’s not something I would spend my time doing, but I’m happy she has her own creative outlet. In the end that’s really all that matters.

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