Discovering Hidden Names on Old Headstones: Volunteer Shares Restoration Secrets

Jaxon Wildwood

Updated Thursday, August 1, 2024 at 12:00 AM CDT

Old cemeteries hold a wealth of history and stories, often concealed by the wear and tear of time. A fascinating image shared on Imgur showcases a headstone in a grassy cemetery, shedding light on the challenge of uncovering missing names on ancient grave markers. This engaging post titled "Sometimes you have to play 'hide and seek' with names and information on an old headstone" has sparked the interest of many, highlighting the dedication of volunteers committed to grave restoration.

The image itself presents a typical up***ht stone marker, light gray in color with a rounded top, nestled within well-maintained green grass. The text on the headstone, written in black, is fully visible, evoking the historical context of a 19th-century cemetery. At the top of the image, large white bold text against a black background reads, "HOW TO FIND A MISSING NAME ON AN OLD HEADSTONE." Centrally placed on the headstone, additional text reads, "TLDR: I do volunteer grave restoration in a 19th century cemetery. Sometimes an old grave looks like it’s missing a name. Here are some places that you might find them."

The post has garnered numerous insightful comments from the community. One user pointed out, "One note: that 'marble' that 'lasts a long time' is actually granite. Granite is very hard and durable. It is what the Egyptians used, and their inscriptions are still clear and sharp 4000 years later. Limestone and marble, what most of these examples are, are much easier to cut, but they last at most a few hundred years unless protected or buried." This comment highlights the importance of material in the longevity of headstone inscriptions.

Another user shared a personal anecdote, "I live in a small historic town that was once a Quaker settlement. There's a small local cemetery across the street from us (the house we live in is on land that used to stable and maintain funeral coaches). Getting back to my gothly roots, I of course had to go look around. A lot of the stones are worn, but I think the oldest one I could recognize was from the late 1700s - it's really interesting to compare the old to more recent ones. Often, there are only birth or death years, and some."

The post also resonated with those who have experienced the loss of historical cemeteries. "The cemetery where my wife’s grandparents were buried has completely disappeared. The interstate is there now and no one knows what happened to the graves of all those buried there. We looked for several years but can find nothing about what happened to it. Not one word of what happened to all those remains," shared a concerned user.

There are uplifting stories as well, such as one user inspired to take action: "Your posts have inspired me. My great grandmother cared for the family cemetery and died in 1986. A tornado hit and only a handful of people have managed to get inside the cemetery including one volunteer who photographed it for FindAGrave. I’m thinking my daughter and I will clean it up for her Girl Scout Gold Award and work on getting a historical marker added. When I die I’m afraid there will be nobody left to remember the cemetery unless I pass it on to my kid."

This Imgur post not only educates viewers on the nuances of grave restoration but also fosters a sense of community and shared history. The dedication of volunteers and the collective effort to preserve these historical sites ensure that the names and stories etched in stone are not forgotten.

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Top Comments from Imgur

glovelyday

Great post, very informative. One note: that "marble" that "lasts a long time" is actually granite. Granite is very hard and durable. It is what the Egyptians used, and their inscriptions are still clear and sharp 4000 years later. Limestone and marble, what most of these examples are, are much easier to cut, but they last at most a few hundred years unless protected or buried.

TheCriticsWereConciseItOnlyTookFourLines

A rule not to live by: "Don't do anything good, because you might accidentally help a bad person"

Eiladar

I live in a small historic town that was once a Quaker settlement. There's a small local cemetery across the street from us (the house we live in is on land that used to stable and maintain funeral coaches). Getting back to my gothly roots, I of course had to go look around. A lot of the stones are worn, but I think the oldest one I could recognize was from the late 1700s - it's really interesting to compare the old to more recent ones. Often, there are only birth or death years, and some

QotU

That headstone with all those babies and a single adult kid, though. Damn.

ZombeyHepburn

Visited Scotland last year. On a Harry Potter walking tour (yes I am a big nerd) we went through a cemetery that was said to have inspired Rowling (taken with a grain of salt). What I found most interesting and sad was all of the broken tombs/headstones/place markers, etc. I asked the tour guide if anyone cares for the graves, and he explained volunteers did. But it was hard to see an angel statue face first in the ground, cracks in headstones etc.

zeacorzeppelin10

Very interesting, I watched a video that talked about recognizing certain types of headstones, one being a zincer or a head stone made of zinc, since it would last longer. Also, how many headstones in old cemeteries came from the Sears catalog.

ahbrannon1

The cemetery where my wifes grandparents were buried has completely disappeared. The interstate is there now and no one knows what happened to the graves of all those buried there. We looked for several years but can find nothing about what happened to it. Not one word of what happened to all those remains.

TheNextHafthorBjornsson

"I've encountered a few headstones where there's one family name on one side, and another family name on the other side." Your theory is very plausible but I do know (first hand) and from others that occasionally (the graveyard owner? not sure how that works) they give away the other side of your plot regardless of your consent, they did it with my uncle a few years back my mom and grandma (also rip) were p***ed.

kickmyballsrealhard

Super informative. Thank you!

Mamaof2QTs

Your posts have inspired me. My great grandmother cared for the family cemetery and died in 1986. A tornado hit and only a handful of people have managed to get inside the cemetery including one volunteer who photographed it for find a grave. I’m thinking my daughter and I will clean it up for her Girl Scout Gold Award and work on getting a historical marker added. When I die I’m afraid there will be nobody left to remember the cemetery unless I pass it on to my kid.

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