Sweet Tale of a Mother-in-Law's Accidental Generosity

Harper Quill

Updated Sunday, June 30, 2024 at 12:00 AM CDT

A recent social media post by user "Kindly-Article-9357" has touched the hearts of many by sharing a unique and sweet approach to uplifting their daughter-in-law. The post, which has quickly garnered attention, describes a deliberate yet seemingly accidental strategy to provide emotional support and encouragement.

The user shared that they have started to "accidentally" not hang up their phone correctly after conversations with their daughter-in-law. During these moments, the mother-in-law intentionally speaks to her husband about how much she enjoys talking to their daughter-in-law, how lovely she thinks she is, and how glad she is that their son chose her.

This thoughtful act began after the user's son revealed that his wife was deeply moved when she once overheard a similar conversation via a b*** dial. Expecting to hear negative comments, given her challenging family background, the daughter-in-law was instead uplifted by the genuine praise and affection she overheard. This unexpected boost in confidence lasted for weeks, prompting the mother-in-law to continue the practice intentionally.

The post has resonated with many readers, eliciting a range of reactions. One user commented, "My cheesed*** Ned Flanders-esque pastor neighbor refers to his MIL as his 'mother in love,' and I think I like that term here." Another shared a personal experience, "This happened to me, except it was my son who didn't hang up the cell correctly. I then got to listen to my ex tear me down for 45 minutes... I knew how to counteract it w/o tearing him down."

Other comments highlight the importance of having supportive in-laws and the impact of genuine, kind-hearted actions. One user remarked, "There's a lot of stuff out there hating on in-laws but honestly it's just a luck of the draw, just like with people in general. People who are genuine and caring, loving and affectionate will make amazing in-laws."

Overall, the post has sparked a conversation about the significance of family support and the creative ways people can show their love and appreciation. It serves as a reminder that small, thoughtful gestures can have a profound impact on someone's well-being, especially when they come from a place of genuine affection and care.

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Top Comments from Imgur

Exyr

Or hear me out. Just actually tell them that you love them and what not. I get the it's more sincere if she thinks it's behind her back thing...but I mean it's still a lie of sorts.

AllDayPermaBanned

My cheesed*** Ned Flanders-esque pastor neighbor refers to his MIL as his "mother in love", and I think I like that term here.

FauxFoxPaw

I didn't need to cry at 9am ffs

Heavenissize17socks

Mother-In-Love is officially my new favorite. (Sherri, we miss you. We know why you had to go. We sure do wish you could have stayed.)

Unholytrashpanda

There's a lot of stuff about there hating on in-laws but honestly it's just a luck of the draw, just like with people in general. People who are genuine and caring, loving and affectionate will make amazing in-laws. People who are greedy, selfish, who have unaddressed trauma, will bring the people around them down, in-laws or not. Just try to surround yourself with the right type of people, whenever possible.

mycatp***edinmyshoe

I think I want to be adopted by this mother.

T****ie1

This happened to me, except it was my son who didn't hang up the cell correctly. I then got to listen to my ex tear me down for 45 minutes. It gave me a real leg up when dealing w him from that point on. Once I knew what he was saying, I knew how to counteract it w/o tearing him down. My son saw the difference, went LC w ex @ 14. He brought his bf to meet me on mother's day last year. I get them for every major holiday. Bf's parents aren't supportive. It's not hard just love them.

Retrikaethan

chaotic good manipulation! like a burglar who shows up and cleans your house for you instead of stealing things.

onceawizardneveramuggleagain

A couple of year into my marriage, I had stepped out and missed a conference call from my MIL and both SILs. Unfortunately (or fortunately) went to voice mail and I got to hear half an hour of their rambling about me. It broke my heart and I never got back that good opinion about my SILs again. It's been almost 19 years since that call. Still blood boils when I remember the words they had about me. I should have just left this family right then and there. I didn't see red flags at every step.

LifeAfterViolence

I love that I am - not- part of my in laws family. I've never had a personal conversation with them and I am absolutely not part of their lives. I once took my mil out for lunch where she proceeded to talk her other sons wife the entire time. She did the same thing when visiting my son as a baby. She didn't raise my husband so f*** em'

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