Silly Socially Awkward Penguin Meme: Leaving the Coffee Shop Before She Reads the Note

Noah Silverbrook

Updated Friday, June 28, 2024 at 12:00 AM CDT

In the ever-entertaining world of internet memes, the "Socially Awkward Penguin" strikes again with a hilariously relatable scenario. The image, which has garnered significant attention on platforms like Imgur, captures the essence of those cringe-worthy, socially awkward moments many have experienced.

The meme features the iconic penguin standing up***ht with one wing slightly raised, set against a background divided diagonally into contrasting red and blue shades. The top text reads, "HAND CUTE GIRL A NOTE WITH MY NUMBER ASKING HER TO COFFEE," while the bottom text humorously concludes, "LEAVE COFFEE SHOP BEFORE SHE CAN READ IT."

The situation depicted is a classic case of social anxiety where the protagonist musters up the courage to hand a cute girl a note with their number, only to flee the scene before witnessing her reaction. The relatability of this meme is reflected in the numerous comments from users sharing their own awkward or nerve-wracking dating experiences.

One user commented, "At least you put yourself out there, takes guts," highlighting the bravery required to even take that initial step. Another user humorously asked, "So you're saying she's single?" reflecting on the optimistic side of such a bold move.

Stories of age differences and dating preferences also emerge in the comment section. One user shared, "There's this really cute obviously gay guy who works at my favorite thrift store. I have yet to get him as my cashier and it makes me sad. I wanna tell him how good looking he is and how he lights up the room with his personality, then apologize for it coming from me."

The meme also sparked discussions about the appropriate age differences in relationships. A user noted, "Half your age, add 7. You did the right thing. Hopefully you have the jam to slide another note soon," referencing the social rule of thumb for dating age differences.

Another user shared a personal story, "I met my partner when I turned 50, but we are the same age difference as the OP and this girl... So basically: you're 20 and she's 10 -> hell no!!! You're 50 and she's 40 -> you lucky boy!"

Interestingly, the meme also drew comparisons to real-life figures. One commenter mentioned, "Jerry Seinfeld was in this exact scenario. Difference is he went w it," while another drew a contrast to a well-known celebrity, "Makes you better than Leo."

The conversation also turned to personal anecdotes of dating and age gaps. A user shared, "My second date with the cute girl who turned out to be my wife of 24 years began with me realizing I was 30 and she was 19. (She's really mature for her age, and I'm not. So it balances out!)"

This "Socially Awkward Penguin" meme and the ensuing discussions remind everyone that taking a chance, even if it's a socially awkward one, requires courage and can lead to interesting, sometimes humorous outcomes. Whether it's handing a note to a cute girl or reflecting on personal dating experiences, the meme resonates with many who have navigated the tricky waters of social interactions.

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Top Comments from Imgur

Shenaniganz80

At least you put yourself out there, takes guts

Idontspellcheck

So you're saying she's single?

ryecurry9000

Half your age, add 7. You did the right thing. Hopefully you have the jam to slide another note soon.

TheFakeCraigFerguson

There's this really cute obviously gay guy who works at my favorite thrift store. I have yet to get him as my cashier and it makes me sad. I wanna tell him how good looking he is and how he lights up the room with his personality, then apologize for it coming from me.

spiceass9000

Ya. Idk I like the zoomers in a lot of ways but as a 30 year old I don’t think I could date a 19 year old. Maybe like a 23 year old. That likes video games. But idk about that even. There’s just so much growth that needs to occur mentally between like 18-28 would just seem like a waste of time. Unless we agreed to just keep it casual

Heavenissize17socks

My second date with the cute girl who turned out to be my wife of 24 years began with me realizing I was 30 and she was 19. (She's really mature for her age, and I'm not. So it balances out! You handled your shot with grace, kindness and class, so well done!

lovingspace

I understand if she has a problem with it, but I would not have a problem dating a 19yo if she is comfortable with the decision. I prefer someone older but ultimately, we are all adults.

onerousempire

My parents are 12 years apart and happily married . . . just saying ;)

x3mxs

Maybe it was the right person but at the wrong time... I met my partner when I turned 50, but we are the same age difference as the OP and this girl.... So basically: you're 20 and she's 10 -> hell no!!! You're 50 and she's 40 -> you lucky boy!

RunawaySpoons

I think the last panel should also be red, because it is ultimately a good thing. Might not necessarily feel that rad right now, but making the right decision even if it's disappointing how things have turned out is actually really cool. Well done for having the courage to give the note in the first place, and well done for doing the decent thing once you were aware of her age. We need more men to be like you.

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