Intense Acting by Sidney Poitier in "Guess Who's Coming to Dinner?" (1967): A Powerful Moment

Avery Emberly

Updated Wednesday, September 18, 2024 at 12:00 AM CDT

The 1967 classic film "Guess Who's Coming to Dinner?" features a powerful scene showcasing the intense acting prowess of Sidney Poitier. In this unforgettable moment, Poitier delivers a heartfelt speech to his father, solidifying his place as one of the greatest actors of his time. The scene's dialogue is a raw declaration of independence and generational conflict. Poitier's character says, "Let me tell you something. I owe you nothing if you carried that bag a million miles, you did what you were supposed to do, because you brought me into this world. And from that day, you owed me everything you could ever do for me, like I will owe my son if I ever have another. But you don't own me. You can't tell me when or where I'm out of line or try to get me to live my life according to your rules. You don't even know what I am, Dad. You don't know who I am. You don't know how I feel, what I think. And if I tried to explain it the rest of your life, you would never understand. You are 30 years older than I am. You and your whole lousy generation believe the way it was for you is the way it's got to be. And not until your whole generation has lain down and died will the dead weight of you be off our backs. You understand? You've got to get off my back."

This powerful monologue has resonated with many viewers. One user mentioned, "This and 'In the Heat of the Night,' brilliant man - remember 'They call me Mr. Tibbs' spat through clenched teeth." Another commented, "Generational trauma sucks. We're all carrying it. Even if we succeed in laying some of it down, we come up with something new to give the kids."

The film also features Spencer Tracy, Katherine Hepburn, and was directed by Stanley Kramer. Notably, Spencer Tracy, who played the white father, was gravely ill during filming. Hepburn and Kramer even put up their salaries as backing because the studio was hesitant to insure Tracy. His final scene in this film was also his last on screen; he passed away 17 days after it was filmed.

The impact of Poitier's performance is evident in the reactions of viewers. One viewer expressed, "I need to show this to my dad." Another shared, "Ahhh, this movie was outstanding. I'm so happy they made a remake with Ashton Kutcher."

"Guess Who's Coming to Dinner?" remains a timeless film, tackling issues of race, generational conflict, and the complexities of parental expectations. Sidney Poitier's performance continues to inspire and resonate with audiences across generations. One viewer poignantly noted, "My favorite actor of all time and the speech I wish my father had heard."

For anyone searching for a profound cinematic experience and a deep dive into the themes of familial and societal expectations, "Guess Who's Coming to Dinner?" is a must-watch, with Sidney Poitier's intense acting at its core.

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Top Comments from Imgur

goatyfacemcgee

I need to show this to my dad.

SwissScars

This and "In the Heat of the Night", brilliant man - remember "They call me Mr. Tibbs" spat thru' clenched teeth.

Bunnies007

NOT SO FUN FACT: Spencer Tracy, who plays the white father was dying while the film was being shot. Co-star, Katherine Hepburn, and director, Stanley Kramer, both put up their salaries as backing because the studio didn't want to insure an actor who could possibly die in the middle of production. The very last scene in the film is the very last scene that Tracy appeared in; he died 17 days after it was filmed.

Girl1inturrupted

Ahhh, this movie was outstanding. I'm so happy they made a remake with Ashton f***ing Kutcher.

OutlawGerman

I need to recite this to my mother.

KarlaAnne

I’ve been screaming this for years to my dad. I’m a 47 year old woman and it’s never once landed, but I’m never gonna stop. Trump made it worse, but i won’t give up on him. Or myself!!!!

rubypilgrim

Generational trauma sucks. We're all carrying it. Even if we succeed in laying some of it down, we come up with something new to give the kids.

HeadJamistan

Can I have some context please? What's he referring to?

INeedMoreGifMeMoreJustOneMore

Well, let me get off of that thing. Wow wow wow... Wow.

stickywiggit

Oof this****s hard. I am currently in Idaho to process my NC mother's estate after her death. This is exactly what I would have told her

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