Delicious Revenge Loaf and Hater Taters Recipe: A Tasty Tale of Spite

In the culinary world, recipes often serve as a bridge between generations, preserving family traditions and cherished memories. However, what happens when these recipes find new meaning in the face of adversity? A recent Tumblr post has sparked a fascinating discussion, blending humor and resilience with the art of cooking.

The post, shared by user "tacobellsagaaanon" (irradiatedsnakes), recounts a personal story of how their favorite childhood meatloaf recipe, once a symbol of familial love, became a tool of defiance against homophobia and abuse. As they reveal, "When I was little my mom's meatloaf was my favorite food. But ONLY her meatloaf. I didn't like anyone else's, and she told me that she would teach me how to make it when I was older. And when I was like 19? She finally taught me, but she told me never to tell anyone else and I was like weird but okay."

The pivotal moment came when the user's mother displayed homophobic and abusive behavior after learning about their sexuality. In a bold act of rebellion, the user decided to share the "secret" meatloaf recipe with the world:

4-6 lbs of Hamburger/turkey burger

1 pk onion soup mix OR ranch mix

1 TBs ketchup

1 Tbs spicy brown mustard

1 Tbs BBQ sauce

1 Tbs steak sauce

1 egg

Mix all the ingredients, shape into a loaf in a big pan, and bake at 350°F for 2 hours (or 2 and a half if you’re feeling adventurous). The ingredients are affordable, and leftovers can be transformed into tacos with a simple addition of taco seasoning.

Adding to this tale, another user, "comfynb," contributes a mashed potato recipe from their homophobic mother, promising it pairs perfectly with the meatloaf:

2 lbs red potatoes

1 cup butter (2 sticks)

1 cup cream cheese (1 pack)

Chives (optional)

Salt & Pepper to taste

1. Wash the potatoes and drop them into a big pot without chopping.

2. Boil until soft.

3. Drain the water.

4. Mash the potatoes, adding butter, cream cheese, chives, salt, and pepper to taste.

These recipes, humorously dubbed "Revenge Loaf" and "Hater Taters," have resonated with many, sparking a broader conversation. Comments on the post range from expressions of empathy to shared stories of similar experiences. One user noted, "But can any of these recipes truly be replicated without the rancid spice of hatred?" Another commented on the bittersweet nature of such recipes, stating, "If there's one person supposed to love you unconditionally, it's your mom, right?"

Others joined in with their own tales and recipes, like the user who shared their ex-mother-in-law's meatloaf recipe, which has now become a cherished dish for their bi partner. Another user reminisced about their grandmother's advice to never share the full recipe to avoid being overshadowed at potlucks.

Despite the underlying sadness of these stories, the humor and resilience displayed by the users shine through. The post has become a platform for healing and solidarity, with one user aptly summarizing the sentiment: "Let's have a spite meal!!"

These recipes represent more than just culinary instructions; they are a testament to the strength and creativity of individuals who have faced adversity. Whether you call it "Revenge Loaf" or "Hater Taters," these dishes are sure to bring a smile to your face and perhaps a taste of defiance to your palate. Enjoy cooking these dishes, and remember, sometimes the best recipes come with a dash of spite and a sprinkle of resilience.