Kalen Dion's Viral Tweet on Compassion Sparks Online Discussion

Sophia Moonstone

Updated Friday, August 16, 2024 at 12:00 AM CDT

Kalen Dion, known for his profound poetry and reflective thoughts, recently posted a tweet that has struck a chord with many, prompting widespread commentary and introspection. The tweet, shared under the handle "@Kalendionpoetry," reads:

"Have you ever found out that someone you know was going through something unimaginably heavy, and afterwards you saw them in an entirely different light? That’s the case with nearly everyone. If we knew the untold weight that others carry in silence, we might all have a lot more compassion and would realize that there is absolutely no room for judgement. Be humble. Stay kind. Maintain your state of grace."

Posted at 2:27 PM on August 14, 2024, the message encourages empathy and understanding, suggesting that everyone is dealing with their own battles in silence.

The tweet has garnered various reactions online, highlighting the diverse perspectives people have regarding empathy and personal boundaries. One user commented, "Someone having a bad time does not make it your responsibility to deal with their problems or exempt or excuse their behavior." This sentiment underscores the balance between compassion and self-preservation.

Another user shared a personal experience: "I went through cancer, came out the other side and saw everyone in a different light. I'm a natural giver, of support, comfort, etc., and had surrounded myself with takers. I couldn't handle the petty issues anymore, lost a good few friends because I started valuing myself better." This comment reflects the transformative power of personal hardship and the reevaluation of relationships that often follows.

While some users expressed frustration with those who misuse their struggles as an excuse for poor behavior, others emphasized the importance of kindness. One poignant remark stated, "Never be cruel. Never be cowardly. Remember, hate is always foolish and love is always wise. Always try to be nice, but never fail to be kind."

In addition to these reflections, resources like imalive.org were mentioned, offering anonymous crisis chat support, founded by Reese Butler of The Kristen Brooks Hope Foundation and Frank Warren of PostSecret.

Kalen Dion’s tweet not only sparked a conversation about the importance of compassion but also reminded people to maintain their own boundaries. The discussion continues to grow, with many finding solace and community in shared experiences and the collective acknowledgment that everyone carries their own unseen burdens.

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Top Comments from Imgur

ThatRaccoonGuy

Then there are some people who, upon learning what they go through, you just think "... You ... dense motherf***er"

ChickenROAR

That being said, heavy baggage isn't a free pass to be a d***.

Greymalum

And get off Twitter, stop supporting the fascist machine.

quietwalker

Someone having a bad time does not make it your responsibility to deal with their problems or exempt or excuse their behavior. It's will never be your job to make exceptions and change yourself for the pleasure, convenience or anxiety of others, any more than it's theirs to change themselves for you. You may do so at your own pleasure, but never mistake it for being YOUR job to deal with THEIR s*** or be required to forgive it. People will walk all over you if you allow it too often.

pans3

Sort of. I went through cancer, came out the other side and saw everyone in a different light. I'm a natural giver, of support, comfort, etc, and had surrounded myself with takers. I couldn't handle the petty issues anymore, lost a good few friends bc I started valuing myself better. Fostering good relationships is a two way street. You can feel bad for someone but still think they're d***s and remove them from your life. I think I worded this poorly bc I took my night meds but yeah xD

PrizmRed

Am I going through dark and heavy s*** in silence? Yes. Was your initial judgement that I’m an a****** valid? Also yes.

zubb999

I mean, yes, but if anyone makes that unimaginable weight someone else’s problem, then I have a problem with it. You can have your sorrow and your dark days, but don’t also make them mine.

Lontri

This is why I talk about my ADHD struggles openly. There might be other people around me struggling with the same things, and they might feel lonely and like nobody understands, they might wonder why life is so hard for them when it looks so easy for others. Many people have thanked me for talking about it, because they recognized their own issues in the things I was talking about, and they managed to get the help they need.

DunkinBaskin

I have no idea whats going on with ither people because nobody says anything

twoamartist

Someplace to go as well…imalive.org A free, anonymous online crisis chat site. Founded by two awesome people: Reese Butler of The Kristen Brooks Hope Foundation and Frank Warren of PostSecret. They know, because they’ve been there.