Discover How Sweet Anita Explains the “I Feel Like I've Known You Forever” Phenomenon

Noah Silverbrook

Updated Wednesday, October 2, 2024 at 12:00 AM CDT

In a compelling Imgur video, Sweet Anita delves into the intriguing sensation of feeling like you've known someone forever, even if you've just met them. This captivating topic has resonated with many viewers, sparking a range of reactions and thoughtful comments.

Sweet Anita begins by recounting a personal anecdote: "All of my ex-girlfriends have tried to kill me in some way or another, so either they're crazy, or I'm missing something, or you have a type there, buddy." She then offers a profound explanation for this phenomenon, highlighting the influence of childhood relationships. "Sometimes we model our relationships on the first relationships we saw or experienced when we were children."

Anita elaborates that this feeling often arises because these new relationships mirror the dynamics of past relationships. "One of the things that you'll feel is, 'I feel like I've known you forever,' even though we've only known each other for days."

This insight has sparked a variety of responses. One user reflected, "I realized that my 'picker' was wrong years ago," while another mentioned, "I might be alone but my life is peaceful." A different commenter emphasized the importance of mutual respect and communication in relationships, sharing, "Everyone makes mistakes, so apologize (or get an apology) and learn from those mistakes. If you need to have a 'winner' in an argument, you're doing it wrong. 23 wonderful years with my wife so far; we learned a lot from our toxic exes."

Another user, in agreement with Anita, noted, "I get what she’s saying about meeting people who end up being the same as prior relationships or modeled after toxic people who you were shaped by. But the feeling of knowing someone forever after knowing them for a few days isn’t always bad!"

Sweet Anita’s community has also chimed in with their thoughts on her advice. Comments like, "I would assume Sweet Anita probably gives better advice than Salty Anita or Bitter Anita," and "I used to tune into her streams every once in a while. Very intelligent girl," show a deep appreciation for her insights.

The video’s production style did attract some criticism, with users pointing out the excessive zooming and jump cuts. "Why the unnecessary zooming in and out? So annoying. I assume it is done to get more attention to the video but it just puts me off," one user commented.

Overall, Sweet Anita's video provides a fascinating look into why certain relationships feel instantly familiar. Her thoughtful analysis and the community’s varied reactions offer valuable insights into the complex dynamics of human connections.

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Top Comments from Imgur

TalkingSnake

I realized that my "picker" was wrong years ago. I might be alone but my life is peaceful.

DreadZeppelin

Model our relationships, not muddle

Widgetboy

My parents had an un-loving relationship. My older sister had three. I tried a little, but soured on the idea pretty early.

WeatherWiz

I mean yes and no. I think you have instances where you meet someone and it feels so natural and comfortable. But not in a “oh you’re toxic/bad, but I’m use to it” sort of way. I get what she’s saying about meeting people who end up being the same as prior relationships or modeled after toxic people who you were shaped by. But the feeling of knowing someone forever after knowing them for a few days, isn’t always bad!!

supergeek

Be aware of what you both are doing to each other habitually and be fair. Mutual respect and communication are essential. Everyone makes mistakes, so apologize (or get an apology) and learn from those mistakes. If you need to have a "winner" in an argument, you're doing it wrong. 23 wonderful years with my wife so far; we learned a lot from our toxic exes.

dennydorko

I would assume Sweet Anita probably gives better advice than Salty Anita or Bitter Anita.

BlasphemousJones

I used to tune into her streams every once in a while. Very intelligent girl.

SomeDetroitGuy

I had an ex-girlfriend that was using me as a rebound hookup situation. All of her ex-boyfriends were emotional abusive, most were physically abusive. She made it clear she liked "super hot, manly men who take charge" but hated that she had such bad luck with men who were abusive and terrible in bed. I was the exact opposite of her type (friendly, cuddly, feminist, kind guy) but we had insane sexual chemistry and were both by far the best sexual partners each other had. She left for a "super hot

GTimgur

Oh hey I haven't seen Anita in forever!

faethorferenc

I can somewhat relate to that. That is why i told my closest friends, that as soon i talk about a relationship, they should insist to get to know my partner. If my friends tell me that the partner is crazy, i still have friends, but i will be without partner. And yes... i think i have a thing for crazy people. Unhealthy for me crazy people.

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