'Get Out There and Do Your Thing: New York City Socializing Tips'

Moving to New York City is a thrilling adventure that promises endless opportunities, but it can also be overwhelming. If you've just landed in the Big Apple and are wondering what to do next, here's some sage advice: get out there and do your thing!

The best bars are often in your neighborhood, and these local watering holes are prime spots to meet new people. Hotel bars are equally excellent—just find a seat, cross your legs, and enjoy your dinner at the bar. You never know who might strike up a conversation with you. One connection can lead to another, and before you know it, you'll have a burgeoning social circle. Regular visits help, as familiar faces will start recognizing you and initiate conversations.

Guaranteed, this approach will land you a date, but the key is persistence. If there's a party, even if you're tired, make the effort to go. Staying home and moaning won't help; socializing will. Trust the advice: "Don't stay home, don't moan, just get out there and do your thing. Trust me, I'm always right."

People have varied reactions to this advice. Some find it expensive or impractical. One user noted, "I can't afford to spend so much time at the bar that I end up meeting people. I ain't living in your economy, Grandma." Another added, "Maybe a woman. The only people that will approach a man are the wait staff."

For those who have lived in NYC for years, this advice rings true. As one commenter put it, "Lived in NYC for 20 years, this is 100% accurate. Also, you will have at least one neighbor in your apartment building that is identical to this woman. They are like the resident docent."

However, not everyone is convinced. Some argue that this advice only works for extroverts and isn't practical for introverts or those who don't drink. "I don't drink. I don't like bars. No one would approach me, and the type of people I want to meet are introverts like myself. This is typical boomer stuff," shared one skeptical user.

Despite the mixed reactions, the underlying message is clear: socializing is key to building connections in a new city. Whether you love or hate bars, finding your "third place"—a location where people mix and meet outside of home and work—can be transformative.

Ultimately, while drinking may not be for everyone, loneliness is far worse. So, if you're new to New York, take this advice to heart. You might just find that stepping out of your comfort zone leads to surprising and rewarding social interactions.

So, New Yorkers, get out there and do your thing!